I Want to Do Boudoir, But I’m Not Photogenic. Here’s Why That Doesn’t Matter
Let’s talk about one of the most common things I hear from women thinking about booking a boudoir session in Lawrence, Kansas or Kansas City:
“I really want to do this, but I’m not photogenic.”
Sound familiar? If that little thought has been holding you back, I’m here to tell you—it doesn’t matter. At all.
Being “Photogenic” Is Not the Point
We’ve all seen those perfectly polished Instagram posts or magazine photos and thought, “She’s just naturally photogenic.” But what does that even mean?
Usually, it just means that the person feels comfortable being seen.
And that comfort? That’s something we create together during your session. Most of my clients—women from all walks of life right here in Lawrence and Kansas City—start out saying, “I’m awkward in front of the camera,” or “I don’t know how to pose.”
Guess what? You don’t have to.
You Don’t Need to Know What You’re Doing—That’s My Job
When you book a session with me at my boudoir photography studio in downtown Lawrence, you don’t need to bring experience or confidence. You just need to bring yourself.
I’ll walk you through every single pose, guide your hands, coach your expressions, adjust the angles, and show you how amazing you already are. I work with real women—not models—and you’ll never be left wondering what to do next.
In fact, clients often say they forget they’re even being photographed because we’re laughing, chatting, and just having fun.
The Secret Is in the Coaching (and the Comfort)
As a full-time Lawrence boudoir photographer, I’ve learned that most of the magic happens before the shutter even clicks. It’s about building trust and helping you feel safe and seen in your own skin.
Every pose I guide you into is intentional and tailored for you. The lighting, the angles, the vibe—it’s all designed to make you feel empowered. And even if you feel awkward at first (totally normal, by the way), that melts away as we go.
Boudoir Isn’t About Perfection—It’s About Confidence
Here’s the thing I want every woman to know: this experience isn’t about chasing some unrealistic version of beauty. It’s about capturing the real you—the strong, radiant, beautiful woman who’s been there all along.
And that confidence? It shines through on camera, every time.
You don’t need to lose ten pounds. You don’t need professional posing skills. You just need a photographer who knows how to bring out your best—and that’s exactly what I do here in Lawrence, KS and the Kansas City area.
You’re Not the Only One Who’s Felt This Way
Almost every woman who walks through my studio doors feels a little nervous. That’s totally normal. But here’s what they said after their session:
“Trina did an excellent job of making sure I was comfortable and getting into the perfect pose. I felt at ease and had fun seeing her hard work pay off. I love my photos and am more confident after being coached by Trina during the session.”
— Ms. Kelly
“I just left and I am on cloud 9! Trina was amazing, she was fun and easy to work with. She gives suggestions and really makes you feel comfortable and beautiful. If you are debating doing a shoot with her stop—you won't regret it. Go book today!”
— Ms. Lauren
“Trina was amazing! Her studio downtown is adorable, has the best lighting, and is very comfortable. She is extremely easy to work with and really brings out your best. Her photos absolutely show this and are just stunning. Absolutely recommend!”
— Ms. Cheyenne
These women didn’t come in knowing how to pose. They didn’t all feel confident at first. But they trusted the process—and walked out of my Lawrence portrait studio glowing.
You Don’t Need to Be Photogenic—You Just Need to Be You
So if that voice in your head is whispering, “I want to do this, but I’m not photogenic…” let’s put that thought to rest.
You are more than ready. You are worthy of this experience. And if you're anywhere near Lawrence or Kansas City, I’d love to show you just how stunning you already are.
Let’s do this—awkward, nervous, unsure—you can bring it all.
I’ll take care of the rest.
xoxo,
Trina
